The Self Talker — Hypnotic Audio Series

The offer

Romantic

A guided hypnotic audio journey through your patterns in love. The first of 12 avenues to discover yourself, inside your own private app.

This is not something you attend, it is something you experience, in your own privacy. Set the time aside and listen all the way through, to really go deep. Your private app is yours: open it whenever you want, and come back to it later.

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Inside your private app

One Self. This is where you start.

The Self Talker is a growing map built around one place — you. Today, one door is open: Romantic. Behind it, ten steps you walk through in order — from your values to your goal.

The Self Talker · your map

Open — yours the moment you join Locked — unlock them one by one, or in packs, whenever you're ready

Audios coming next Relationship · Strangers · Family · Money · Career · Health & Fitness · Interest & Activities · Intellectual · Sensual · Sexual · Emotional

Romantic lives inside your own private app — no downloads to manage, no files to lose. Open it on your phone or computer and start whenever you're ready.

What you might be living

You keep meeting the same person.

Different face, different name — unstable, unavailable, never quite ready to stay. Some say it's karma. I like to see it as a place within you that you haven't discovered yet.

A quiet loneliness — wanting someone's presence nearby, and feeling unstable without it.

A world that treats a relationship as a completed life stage — and the feeling of failure when you're not there yet.

Meeting people whose intentions don't match yours, without seeing it clearly enough, soon enough, to walk away.

Hoping, each time, that this one is different — until it's time to really commit, and old wounds surface.

Dating apps and short-lived connections that keep things easy on the surface, and keep you from ever stopping to ask what you actually want.

Romantic brings that up to the surface — what actually matters to you in love, and what your ideal partner genuinely looks, thinks, and acts like.

Why it's so hard to hear your own voice

Your nervous system is overloaded.

This isn't a lack of willpower. It's a nervous system flooded with information you don't need, attention constantly pulled toward entertainment, which stops you from thinking for yourself.

Overload

Your nervous system keeps absorbing information that serves you nothing — and never gets the time to regulate.

Scattering

Your attention gets pulled toward everything except what actually matters to you. The result: you stop thinking, and start reacting.

Disconnection

Cut off from your own sensations, you end up cut off from others too — even while surrounded by people.

My path

I was 20, and I spent 26 days in complete silence.

Thailand First Vipassana · Age 20

Before I could guide anyone else, I had to stop myself first. Twenty-six days of silent meditation in a temple in Thailand, at 20 years old — and there I discovered how completely disconnected from yourself you can live, without even knowing it.

That silence showed me what everyday noise hides: a capacity for listening, presence, and clarity that never actually disappeared — it was just buried.

That's what I've done ever since: hold that space so others can find, too, what's still whispering underneath the noise.

Who's guiding you

Thomas — Founder, The Self Talker

Master Practitioner in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (diploma). I studied NLP and hypnosis at 26, after that first Vipassana that changed my path.

Since then, I've grown The Self Talker into an Instagram audience of 150,000+ people, where I share how to look inward, question the patterns you run on, and step outside your comfort zone through dance, meditation, and eye gazing. That same approach has guided hundreds of hours of live sessions and one-on-one work — always with the same conviction: transformation happens in presence, not theory.

150k+Instagram followers

4 yrs+guiding this work

Hundredsof hours of accompaniment, through online sessions

The shift

Before, and with.

Before

You feel the pattern, but not why
You hope this one is different
You go quiet when it matters most

After

You know exactly what you're looking for
You spot the pattern early — and choose
You speak from what you actually feel

What it costs to do nothing

Nothing changes on its own.

The noise won't quiet down by itself. The distance from yourself doesn't close by ignoring it. Every month that passes without stopping is another month spent functioning without feeling.

The result

Your own voice, audible again.

Not a new version of you — the version that was already there, underneath the noise. More present, more clear, more connected to what matters: yourself, and the people you love.

What this really is

Not another audio. A journey down to the root.

Most of what we do in love isn't chosen. It's repeated — from beliefs we absorbed early, from wounds we never looked at, from values we never put into words.

Romantic takes you underneath all of that. Eyes closed, guided step by step into a deep hypnotic state, you meet your own values, your beliefs about love, what blocks you, and what you carry from your past and your family. Then you answer — out loud, in your own voice, at your own pace.

Somewhere along the way, something shifts. You finally see why the life you're living doesn't match the life you deeply want — and that what you're looking for was never out of reach. It was waiting on the other side of the patterns.

This isn't about becoming someone else. It's about hearing, maybe for the first time, what you actually want — and walking toward it on purpose.

You understandwhy the same story keeps repeating

You let goof what was never really yours to carry

You choosefrom your own values, not from your patterns

What actually happens

2.5 hours, fully with yourself.

This isn't background listening. You set the time aside, find a quiet space, and go through it — one sitting, headphones on, eyes closed. After each question, you pause the audio and actually answer it, out loud, before moving to the next.

You arrive already knowing your schedule is clear — this is deliberate, not squeezed in.

Somewhere in the middle, a pattern you've explained away for years suddenly makes sense.

By the Ideal Partner module, you're not guessing anymore — you can actually describe who you're looking for.

In Vision and Goal, you get to really picture it: what it feels like to be with that person, and to be that version of yourself.

Most people come out of it steadier than they've felt in a long time — some in tears, most with real clarity.

How it works

Three steps, nothing more.

Get your access

Secure checkout at €37. Within 24 hours you'll receive an email with your personal login.

Find a quiet moment

Headphones on, a blindfold over your eyes, somewhere you won't be interrupted — that's all you need.

Listen, at your own pace

Press pause after each question, and take the time to actually answer.

What people usually ask

Your questions, before mine.

Do I need any experience with hypnosis?

No. Each audio guides you step by step — you don't need to believe anything in advance, or have done this before.

What do I actually need to do this?

Headphones, a blindfold, and somewhere quiet and private — you'll be speaking your answers out loud, so a space where you won't be interrupted helps.

Can I listen to them more than once?

Yes — they're yours to keep. Many people return to a section months later and hear something new in it.

How do I get access after I pay?

Within 24 hours of your payment you'll receive an email with your personal login to the private app. Check your spam folder if you don't see it, or write to thomas@theselftalker.com.

Can I get the other sections later?

Yes. Romantic is the first door. The other sections open one by one inside the app — you can unlock them individually, or in packs, whenever you feel ready.

The first step

What's whispering in you is waiting to be heard.

Get access to Romantic and start whenever you're ready.

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